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We are aware that during this unusual time period that our services may need to be adjusted to meet client needs. In general, it has been our belief that face-to-face counseling is the most effective. In today’s world situation, however, we recognize some may prefer or need to stay in. In the light of this, we’re offering the option of telephone or encrypted telemed counseling to current and new clients. (These services are now offer through HIPPA compliant and encrypted services.) This option involves new clients filling out intake forms (links on first page of this site) and either faxing them to (817) 275-3720 or emailing them to our office at centerstaff@hotmail.com. Arrangement of payment method needs to be made with our office and we are glad to file insurance claims when appropriate. Credit cards are accepted. Our therapists are licensed in the state of Texas and we’re only offering this service to individuals in the Dallas/Fort Worth area.

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SEX IS ABOUT YOU

Posted on July 31, 2014 by Carol in Relationships, Unsolicited Advice Column

I’m all for sensitivity and concern about your sexual partner having a really good time, but you can’t truly be fulfilled and engaged in the activity if you’re not focusing on what you feel. Sex feels good–when done correctly–but it requires you to lose yourself in your own sensation. What you feel when you touch the other person…what you feel when he or she is touching you. At the same time, you want your partner to have a great time, too. Sex is one of the most interconnected, inner-connected experiences we humans have.

It’s terrifically exciting when your partner is hot for you; that’s actually one of the biggest turn-ons. I’m not suggesting you just get your jollys without caring about your partner. I’m saying you’re going to be a more enthusiastic and arousing lover if you tune into your own excitement–i.e. you really like how you feel when you touch her or him.

Good sex can tighten the bonds of emotional intimacy, but when you attempt to produce an experience in your partner, you can lose your own experience.

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