“My spouse and I have known each other for 10 years, but have only been in a relationship for 4 years. We have a 3 year-old child. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was great, fun and easy, but after we had our child, it seems like things and we have changed. We argue […]
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Unsolicited Advice Column
WHAT LIFE DO YOU WANT?
Too often we ask teens and college-bound kids the wrong question and truthfully adults are often confused when making major decisions. Rather than asking themselves about college-majors and career choices, individuals first need to consider the kinds of lives they want to lead. This may sound obvious, but think about it, when you pick a […]
GIVE THE GIRL A BREAK
“I was physically abused by my husband years ago to the point of barely surviving and my in-laws filed for custody of my 2 year-old daughter while I was in the hospital recovering. They won custody and took her away to another state. Because of her father’s abuse, I was told I couldn’t have her […]
SHE WANTS KIDS NOW; HE’S NERVOUS
I have loved my fiancee for a long time. I’m simply not willing to let go and walk away. We get along great at times and she really is my best friend. We both want to get married and start a family as soon as possible, but she doesn’t think that I share those desires […]
LEARN FROM IT
Bad stuff happens and if we’re paying attention, we look for the lesson. This isn’t to say that random bad things don’t happen. They do. Just watch the news. People get what they don’t deserve all the times. In our difficult economy, people lose jobs and homes and self-respect. Most of them don’t deserve any […]
BEING 13 SUCKS * EXCRUTIATING SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS
“I’m not sure what to do anymore. Many nights I end up crying myself to sleep. My dad never seems to notice anything or care. His main focus is work. If he isn’t working, he’s on the computer or watching TV. My mom thinks she’s doing what’s best for us, but I can’t seem to […]
DRIVING HER CRAZY
My husband and I have been married for 8 of our 15 years together and recently, everything has spun so out of control that neither one of us knows each other anymore. The root of the problem is three years ago my husband cheated on me. I know I chose to stay in my marriage […]
PUNISHED LOVE LEAVES
“I am a 25 year old professional working in India. I am in a relationship with a girl of the same age from past 3 years. We are no yet married, but we were staying together for last 1 year. I was down with a nagging chest pain for few months and my entire routine […]
GIRLFRIEND’S DIRTY KIDS
“I need some advice about issues with by girlfriend’s children that are 16, 19 & 20 and her mother, who lives with us. I find that the children and mother-in-law are lazy and I am constantly having to clean up after them with many issues, such as towels left on counters, and mostly dishes. Many […]
CONVENIENCE STORE COMFORT
A client of mine recently spoke about his depression and his tendency to isolate himself. The one thing he did regularly was to visit a convenience store near his home. He liked to go there and get a drink, talk to the clerks and, in that way, get out of himself and his dark moments […]